Special thanks for today’s guest post from David Sewell McCann of Sparkle Stories. He is also sharing free downloadable Halloween stories, which you’ll find at the bottom of this post. We hope you enjoy them!
The end of October and the beginning of November are unique in the year. Think of the world festivals during that span of three days: Halloween, All Souls Day, All Saints Day, Diwalli, Samhain, Day of the Dead. How do you imagine them? Many of us see them at night. We see them in the darkness with lights above in the form of stars or fireworks – or lights below in the form of flickering candles.
The common images from these holidays celebrate both darkness and light, but with a mood very different from that of Advent, Chanukah and Christmas. Rather than a feeling of joyous anticipation, we feel wide-eyed and watchful – as if we are about to be surprised.
Though the festivals of late October and early November are all very different, there is a thread that winds its way through them all. This thread is also present during the changes of the season: the descending nature of autumn in the northern hemisphere and the rising nature of spring in the southern. This thread is wonder.
We are in a state of wonder as we light the candles in remembrance of the dead, witness fire ‘crackers’ overhead, dress up in wild costumes and parade through the streets. Wonder is all around us as the leaves change color and fall, as well as when the fruit trees break out in flower.
Most of the festivals during this time of year have held onto that wonder and kept it in focus. But there is one that feels a little confused. And that is Halloween.
Now, the wonder has not vanished from contemporary Halloween 
celebrations. In fact, I think it has never been stronger. The commercialization and intensification of the festival, however, has added a layer of stress that has transformed the wonder into something else. Wonder plus stress can become scared. Wonder plus sugar can become frenzied. This, I believe, is why children actually want to dress in gory costumes of monsters, the undead and the maimed. They are still looking for wonder; their aim, I believe, is true. But what they are getting is not unlike the sugary treats. They are getting high-octane wonder in the form of surprise and fear. Instead of the complex sweetness of an apple, they are getting the distilled and intensified sweetness of Skittles. Instead of the wonder of a flickering candle, they are getting the intensified wonder of a sudden scare.
But re-framing Halloween isn’t enough for many of us, as we long for a simpler, more pure experience of wonder for our children. As someone who has put a lot of effort into this particular festival, I can say that the children want it too. They want to slow it all down and savor the wonder rather than gulping it like a handful of M&Ms. They want to walk slowly, eyes watchful, as they brush through fallen leaves and spot little lights in the windows of houses nearby. They want to tense up as they approach the door – a door that looks so different at night – and then knock, oh so carefully. They want to wait – imagining who will answer; what will they say, what will happen?
And then smiles and treats and happy conversation follows – providing a rest, an outbreath, before doing it all over again.
The key, I think, is paying attention. Whether you enjoy the tradition of neighborhood trick-or-treating, or you create your own magical Halloween experience: pay attention to the details. Pay attention to the costumes, the treats, the walk, the candles, the decorations, the happy faces. Paying attention to all the aspects of a festival naturally slows it down and simplifies it. Paying attention welcomes in delight and gratitude as well – and they are friends for any celebration.
If you can pay attention but still make room for inspiration, transformation and surprise, then you can offer an experience of wonder to your children, while feeling the wonder yourself. And truly, this is what we all want anyway.
David Sewell McCann fell in love with spinning stories in first grade – the day a storyteller came to his class and captured his mind and imagination. He has been engaged in storytelling all of his adult life through art, film-making, teaching and performing. Out of his experience as a Waldorf class teacher and parent, he has developed a method of intuitive storytelling, which he now shares through workshops and through www.sparklestories.com.
Lisabeth Sewell McCann loves to bring words to life. A playwright and director, she has worked with people of all ages on and off the stage. Lisabeth and David live in Charlotte, Vermont with their 2 sons.
Sparkle Stories is offering a special gift to all Simplicity Parenting readers today – FREE Halloween stories – all full of wonder!
Simply click on the links below to download the stories and enjoy them with your children. They are wonderful to listen to during quiet time. Many children love to draw or build images from the stories as they listen, too – gather round the kitchen table and you may be amazed at what they take from the stories and what they create! We hope these stories will bless you and bring a sense of wonder to the celebrations your family will have.
Click the link below to find two free Halloween Stories from Sparkle Stories.
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If you like what you hear, Sparkle Stories also has longer Halloween Audio Books:
1. The Junkyard Tales Halloween Audio Book – Three stories of adventure (and laughter) with the Junkyard Tales animals, as they create a Halloween Festival for animals in the neighboring town! Find it on the Junkyard Tales Audio Books Page!
2. The Martin & Sylvia Halloween Audio Book! – These three stories are from our Martin & Sylvia series. They follow the events that unfold over the few days before Halloween, as the creative brother and sister prepare for their annual Fairy Ball!
Find it on the Martin & Sylvia Audio Books Page